This is Anne... Complete and Real
Published on March 18, 2004 By Tangled Wishes In Blogging
I discovered today that they boy I've been kind of interested in these past few months reminds me of my ex boyfriend Ben. It just hit me today when he made a funny Ben growl thing, and it scared the crap out of me. Then I realized that there are a lot of Ben-like things that he does, and it bugged me even more. I had to ask myself, why am I interested in him? Is it because he reminds me in some ways of Ben? I still don't know the answer, but I suppose I'll have to think about that. I mean, if I'm only interested in him because he reminds me of someone I loved before, then that's no good. But if I really like him, because of him, and not because I see someone else in him, then I should go for that.

But unfortunately, I don't know the answer to that yet.

While I was sitting next to him today, I was trying to remember what his eyes look like. I couldn't even remember what color they are!! (I think they're blue, but honestly that's just a guess. I really have no clue.) Yet, I can still remember exactly what Ben's eyes look like. They're a sort of hazel brown with specks, and they have a tinge of green. They're very pretty. It's funny, you know, that I should remember his eyes though I haven't looked into them since last July, and I can't even remember Scott's eye color when I see him every day.

Don't get me wrong, though. I don't think about Ben's eyes every day. Lol I don't think about them ever. It was just, I couldn't remember Scott's eyes today, and I wondered if I remembered Ben's, and it turned out I did. It wasn't like a test, or anything. But it does tell me something, nonetheless... Something I don't want to have to think about.



I wonder if he remembers what my eyes look like? Doubtful. I bet he doesn't even remember my birthday, or my favorite ice cream flavor.

Comments
on Mar 18, 2004
All Ben's suck! I swear they do. Go for Scott... that's my boyfriend's name and Scott's are good. But, I swear, every Ben I met has sucked... although they do have their good qualities, over all they suck! lol

Ü Sarah
on Mar 18, 2004
People tend to be attracted to certain traits in people.  Is it possible that they both just share strong traits that you are attracted to? 
on Mar 18, 2004
Bens are bad... I agree wholly. I've liked two different Scotts now. One was an amazing kisser, and this one? Well jeez, we've sat next to each other all this semester and I've liked him since... October, and I'm actually afraid to make a move. I keep asking myself, what have I got to lose?

And yet, I still haven't done it....
on Mar 19, 2004
The Ben's I have met have been nice!! I have issues with Steve's. I've had two boyfriends called Steve, both Assholes. Also, my fiance's stepdad is called steve, and he's a... well, I can't really say it here!! So, Steve's get my vote

Hey, just kiss him

H
on Mar 19, 2004
"I've liked two different Scotts now. One was an amazing kisser"

After last night, I won't disagree that Scotts have a talent for kissing, it seems. lol