This is Anne... Complete and Real
(If I ever get to see him again!!!)
Published on December 16, 2003 By Tangled Wishes In Personal Relationships
Well... I'm going to start with:
"I know this sounds totally crazy, but I'm being honest. This is what I really think and feel, from the bottom of my heart:
"I have never met anyone who's made me feel this way in so short a time. I've never wanted to see someone again as much as I've wanted to see you. I've never been so amazed by someone I hardly know. I don't want to be all obsessive or freaky or anything, but you are just... Wow.
"I also wanted to let you know that you're a great kisser. I've had some time to overanalyze everything, if you know what THAT'S like, and unfortunately, while I've been thinking about all this, it happens to be in the later evening and all my smoking paraphernalia have been in my fucking car and it's been cold out so I'm too fucking lazy to go get them... So that's never good. I'd like to take a chill hit, I just haven't been able to!
"Not to mention this all happened during finals week... Do you know how hard it is to study for tests after you've met one of the most amazing belongs of the male specimen? Yeah, it's not easy. I don't know if this happens to you often, but it sure doesn't happen to me often! Although it IS nice to think about someone that ISN'T unarguably a LOSER, every once in a while...
"Thanks. I haven't had such a good night in a long time. And, I guess what I'm trying to say is I liked having a good night, and I hope to have another one... With you."
So, ladies and gents, this is what I plan on saying to the man of my dreams wh/if I get to see him again. Tell me what you think... Does it sound desperate, lame, or anything like that? Will it make his heart melt even more? Or at all, if it hasn't? I think it sounds good.. Especially the last line.... But who knows. Let me know!
~Anne~
Comments
on Dec 16, 2003
If he is interested in you, it won't matter much what you say.
If he is not interested in you, it won't matter much what you say.
on Dec 16, 2003
I would advise keeping it simple. Grandiose speeches happen in books and movies, but not often in real life. Stick with "I have never met anyone who's made me feel this way in so short a time. I've never wanted to see someone again as much as I've wanted to see you." Then let the conversation take its natural course.
on Dec 16, 2003
Depends if you're actually saying this to his face, or writing it? It's the kind of thing I might write if I had the nerve!! If you're syaing it, then I agree with CariElf, but you could also add your favourite last line, about wanting to spend another great night with him. That might entice him a bit! If you are wanting to say all of that to him, then I definitely suggest writing it down! Hope that helps a bit. Helen
on Dec 16, 2003
I couldn't agree more with Abe. I mean, you might score a couple points (not to reduce it to that level) with him with that last line- it really is a good one- but bottom line is when push comes to shove the only relevant factor is... does he feel the same way? Good luck. And remember- a relationship is based on friendship, and if that friendship isn't built, you're setting yourself up for disaster. Don't jump in too quick, no matter how tempting he is.

~Dan
on Dec 18, 2003
Say what you feel. If it's the last shot you get, would you rather leave some things unsaid? Besides, like Abe said..either way, it may not matter to him, but it should matter to you. If he isn't there, you still have to live with you.
Follow your heart.